You’ve tried apps, spreadsheets and budgets. They work for a few weeks, then life gets in the way and you’re back where you started.
I was on target to earn over £50k in 26/27, but still not making the day-to-day finances work or able to overpay on my mortgage.
Jean M. · Business owner
You know you should be investing, but you haven’t started.
There’s so much advice online that it feels easier to do nothing. You want someone to guide you, not another video.
There was so much talk about investing on social media, and I was very confused by it all.
Semayah · NHS nurse
You’re tired of struggling on your own.
You’re not quite ready to see a financial adviser, but want expert guidance without the judgement.
This isn’t for you if you want stock tips, a get-rich-quick plan or someone to manage your money for you. It’s also not for you if you’re not ready to show up once a month and do the work in between.
How it works.
Your journal is where your coaching happens. It's private to you and Peter, and works on your phone and laptop. You book your monthly sessions with Peter right from your journal. Your first session sets your goals. From then on, every session, task and message is there to help you build confidence, take control of your money and reach your goals.
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Example journal with made-up details. Your journal is private to you and your coach.
What your journal gives you
Your goals, mapped outWith a timeline and progress you can see.
A clear to-do listEach month, with the tools and videos to help.
Peter, between sessionsMessages and voice notes, both ways.
A place to check inWrite or record how the month went.
Your wins, celebratedEvery goal you reach, marked and kept.
Your sessions, booked herePick your monthly one-to-one from Peter's diary.
Before your session
You never start from scratch.
Write in your journal, or send a voice note, and say how each goal is feeling. Peter reads it before you meet, so your hour goes on what matters this month.
Making a timeline for my financial goals was extremely hard, but it was a really useful way to see them, and I often look back at it for motivation.
Semayah · NHS nurse
Your session
Your plan doesn’t disappear.
60 minutes on Zoom with Peter. Together you agree this month’s to-do list and the tools to use. It’s all saved in the journal you share, so you always know what to work on next.
When I eventually opened up about my financial concerns, he was empathetic and didn’t seem fazed by what felt to me like a huge problem.
Jean M. · Business owner
Between sessions
Support between sessions.
Tick off your to-do list as you go. Peter replies to your entries, you can message him on WhatsApp with quick questions, and your phone tells you when there’s something new.
I can ask any question, even if it seems silly, and share my highs and lows outside the meeting times.
Two members on where they started, what changed, and where they are now.
Jean M. · Business ownerGet debt free
“I now have a Calm Money roadmap to a better financial future. I’m calm about money because I have an expert who has my back.”
Before joining
I was on target to earn over £50k in 26/27, but still not making the day-to-day finances work or able to overpay on my mortgage. My mortgage term had come to an end, and my credit rating meant the best remortgage options were off the table.
The doubt, and how it looks now
My main doubt was that I already had a problem with debt, and I was about to spend my little reserves on another training opportunity that could just tell me what I already knew, with no real solution to my problem at the end of it. One month in, those doubts have gone. The money went into the programme, but it was really an investment in me, my family and my future.
Doing now
I’m counting my money.
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What tipped it
I thought that addressing how I managed the money I had coming in would improve my situation. That thought was perfectly timed with the launch of the Calm Money community.
Most valuable so far
The improvement in my financial literacy. I confirmed I was a ‘Spender’, and that it was linked to my emotions. I had already cut back on buying for myself but was still buying for others. I’d think, ‘Ooh, that would make a nice present for someone at Christmas’, without even knowing who, or ‘Let me just stop and have a nice restaurant lunch here’. Now I avoid shopping for things I don’t need. If I catch myself wandering into a shop to browse, I stop and ask why I went in, and whether there was a trigger.
The support
Peter is patient, kind and listens. When I eventually opened up about my financial concerns, he was empathetic and didn’t seem fazed by what felt to me like a huge problem. He was, I would say, calm about the money issue. Where he didn’t know something, he found another expert in that area to talk to the group or to me. I’ve realised that, practically, some things take time to resolve, and as long as I’m engaging with my creditors, not burying my head in the sand, they do understand. I’m emotionally calmer about my finances, because through this programme I’ve built a roadmap to a better financial legacy.
What it’s like
I expected a noisy (I mean lively!) WhatsApp group that I’d feel bad about not keeping up with, as I’m very busy. It was quite different. It’s relaxed, and if work means I can’t make a meeting, that’s OK.
What I’d tell a friend
When we were at school, we didn’t have financial literacy training to help us understand real-world money. You may not be doing anything wrong, but you could be doing it better with the right roadmap. Calm Money helps you understand who you are and what money is to you, so you can help the people you want to help now and leave a lasting legacy.
Jean has a monthly one-to-one with Peter.
Semayah · NHS nurseBuild wealth
“Before joining, I felt that money had no respect for me. Now I’m more optimistic and hopeful about my future.”
Before joining
I was feeling out of control with my finances. I had no major debt, but I wanted a sense of financial freedom and wasn’t sure how to achieve it. There was so much talk about investing on social media, and I was very confused by it all.
The doubt, and how it looks now
The price was a concern at first, but in one of his videos Peter said the price was reasonable, which reassured me a little. One month in, Calm Money has exceeded my expectations.
Doing now
I’m consistently paying myself first. Before, I would pay myself last or not at all.
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What tipped it
I was getting frustrated as an NHS nurse. The workload was heavy and more was demanded of you, but the pay didn’t reflect it. I started to ask myself how I could make my job an option and not a necessity. Watching financial influencers’ wins made me feel even more depressed. Then Peter made a video about people in their 40s and how they think as they get older. It resonated with me, and I felt it was aimed at my age group.
Most valuable so far
I learnt my money personality. I’m an ‘Overthinker’. It described me so well, and I never knew this about myself. Now I understand why I was procrastinating and so indecisive about money. Making a timeline for my financial goals was extremely hard, but it was a really useful way to see them, and I often look back at it for motivation. I made the bold decision to start investing. I was very nervous, but I wanted to confront my fears. Since then I’ve invested a set amount every month, and I try not to get too emotionally attached to the rises and falls. I’ve now started investing for my kids too, and encouraged my husband and sister to start.
The support
Peter has gone out of his way to check on my wellbeing. Thank you for not seeing me as just another number. You’ve shown me that health and wellbeing matter, not just money. It makes my experience feel personal, like you’re walking with me through this journey.
What it’s like
I didn’t really know what to expect. I just had to trust the process. I’m continuously learning from Peter’s expert knowledge, which helps me make informed decisions. I can ask any question, even if it seems silly, and share my highs and lows outside the meeting times.
What I’d tell a friend
Sometimes you have to take a leap of faith to change your financial future. Give yourself a chance to learn, grow and take care of your money, and take the first step towards your financial freedom.
Semayah has a monthly one-to-one with Peter.
Why I built Calm Money.
Peter Komolafe, founder of Calm Money and your coach. This is how it came to be.
1. Fostered from three months old
Fostered at three months old, I grew up without money. I still remember how my friends’ dinners always smelled better than ours. I had no idea the scarcity mindset forming in those moments would go on to hurt my finances as an adult. At eight, I was told I was going to Nigeria for a two-week holiday. It lasted ten years.
I returned from Nigeria in 1998 with £50 in my pocket and, not understanding how money worked, ended up homeless and sleeping on the streets. By 2001 I was in debt, and I stayed there for over a decade.
2. Canary Wharf
In 2006, I found a job as a bank cashier and worked my way through retail and corporate banking before reaching wealth management in Canary Wharf in 2012. For the first time, I was earning good money, yet I still felt stuck. I understood everyday financial products but knew nothing about investing, and the scarcity mindset from my childhood had me overspending and living for the moment.
Then a manager showed me I was earning enough to buy my first property. That conversation sparked the biggest mindset shift of my life. I set proper goals, stopped spending aimlessly, cleared debt I’d struggled with for over ten years, bought my first home and finally started investing. Not bad for someone who once slept on the streets.
3. Conversations I wish someone had with me
In 2020 I started a YouTube channel, which led to my bestselling book with HarperCollins, The Money Basics: How to Become Your Own Financial Hero, in 2023. I’ve appeared on shows including Lorraine, Steph’s Packed Lunch, Secret Spenders: Beat the Price Rises, Family Budget Switch Up and Jeremy Vine, and as a financial expert on BBC News, Sky News, Channel 5 News and the BBC World Service.
4. Advocating for financial education
I ended up sleeping on the streets because I didn’t understand simple budgeting. It’s why I joined a team campaigning for financial education to be made compulsory in primary schools, taking our case from Parliament all the way to Number 10. From September 2028, children in England as young as five will learn the fundamentals of money in school.
5. Why Calm Money exists
I’ve come a long way from noticing whose dinner smelled better. But the biggest lesson from that journey is one no textbook taught me: you can understand money and still be controlled by it. One conversation shifted my mindset, but it was the action I took afterwards that changed my life. It took years to realise how many people are stuck where I was, earning, trying, and still not moving forward. Calm Money is my answer to that. A place to stop overthinking your money and start taking the steps that move you forward, so you don’t have to wait as long as I did.
One plan. Cancel any time.
A one-to-one with your coach every month, and your shared journal to keep you on track between sessions.
Your private coaching journal, shared with your coach
Replies to your journal entries between sessions
WhatsApp access to Peter for quick questions
Your fact find, ready for your first session
The money personality test and practical tools
What happens after you join
Join onlineIt takes a couple of minutes, and you get your own private journal.
Fill in your fact findA short form about where you are now, so your first session starts with the full picture.
Book your first sessionPick a time that suits you from your journal. Together you set your goals and map out your timeline.
Peter is patient, kind and listens.
Jean M. · Business owner
Common questions.
Is this for me?
Yes, whether you’re in debt, debt free but stuck, or self-employed with an income that goes up and down. Your first session starts from where you are: clearing debts in the right order, building a safety net, or steadying an irregular income, then getting you investing with confidence. Each month you review progress with Peter and adjust when life changes.
How much time does it take?
One hour a month on Zoom with Peter, plus about 15 minutes before each session to write your journal entry. Between sessions you work on the few tasks you agreed together.
Is this financial advice?
No. Calm Money is financial education. It teaches you how money works and helps you build your own system, it does not recommend specific investments or products for you. For regulated advice, speak to a financial adviser authorised by the FCA.
What if I can’t make a session?
Tell Peter at least 24 hours before and you’ll rearrange it, within the same month where possible.
How long do people usually stay?
It depends on your circumstances, and it’s always your choice. We suggest giving it at least three months. That’s usually when people have built strong foundations, feel more in control and start reaching their goals. Many stay for six or twelve months to see bigger goals through. You can cancel any time, so you decide based on the progress you’re making.
How does paying and cancelling work?
Calm Money is £199 a month. You can cancel any time from your coaching journal, and your membership continues until the end of the month you’ve paid for.
Can I talk to Peter before I join?
Yes. Book a free 20-minute call to talk through where you are and whether Calm Money is right for you. There’s no obligation to join.